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# How to set up Virgin Media parental controls: Essential Security (Web Safe) and the Connect app
- URL: https://devicedaddy.mymagic.page/virgin-media-parental-controls/
- Published: 2026-10-05T12:00:00.000Z
- Updated: 2026-10-05T12:00:00.000Z
- Description: Switch on Essential Security parental controls in My Virgin Media, add categories and sites, and pause Wi-Fi with the Connect app.
- Author: Philip Nixon
- Tags: Guides, Virgin Media, #Import 2026-11-09 16:05

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**Verified:** Last checked on **Monday 5 October 2026** against Virgin Media Help pages **How to set up parental controls for internet use**, **Essential Security: What is it and how can I use it?** and **Virgin Media Connect app**, plus Virgin Media's **Essential and Advanced Security** product page. Covers **Virgin Media home broadband** in the UK: the free **Essential Security** filter (the new name for **Web Safe**) managed in **My Virgin Media**, and pausing devices with the **Virgin Media Connect app** (Hub 3, 4 or 5).  
*Note: we checked these steps against Virgin Media's current written instructions. We haven't tested them on a Virgin Media account for this edition, so screens may look a little different after updates.*

**⏱ Time to complete:** about 10–15 minutes **🔧 Difficulty:** **Easy.** Only the **main account holder** can switch parental controls on or off.

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## The short version (for very busy parents)

1. Sign in to **My Virgin Media** as the **main account holder**.
2. Go to **Account Settings → Online Security** and make sure **Essential Security** is on.
3. Turn on **parental controls** — this automatically blocks categories such as pornography, violence, drugs, hate and suicide/self-harm.
4. Use **Categories**, **Sites** and **Timer** to block extra categories (such as gambling or social media), add exceptions, and decide when filtering applies.
5. Install the **Virgin Media Connect app** to **pause Wi-Fi** to a child's device at bedtime.

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## What you'll need

- Your **My Virgin Media** sign-in for the **main account holder**.
- A phone or computer with a web browser.
- *Optional:* the **Virgin Media Connect app** (iPhone or Android) and a **Hub 3, 4 or 5** — check the sticker on your hub, or look in the Connect app.
- **10–15 minutes**.

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## Essential Security, Web Safe, Advanced Security — what's the difference?

| Name                                                                  | What it is                                                                                                                                                       | Cost                                             |
| --------------------------------------------------------------------- | ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | ------------------------------------------------ |
| **Essential Security** (previously **Web Safe**)                      | Filter built into your **home broadband**. Blocks scam and virus sites, and includes **parental controls** for every device on your Wi-Fi.                       | Included with all Virgin Media broadband         |
| **Advanced Security** (previously **Virgin Media Internet Security**) | App you install on each device. Virus scanning, banking protection, and parental controls that can be customised **for each child** and work **away from home**. | Add-on — Virgin Media lists it at **£3 a month** |

This guide covers **Essential Security** (free) and the **Connect app** (free).

> **Joined before 16 May 2024?** Virgin Media says Web Safe is switched on automatically for customers who joined **after 16 May 2024**, but **not** for customers who joined before then. If you've been with Virgin for a while, check it's on (Step 1).

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## Step-by-step

### Step 1: Sign in and check Essential Security is on

1. Sign in to **My Virgin Media** as the main account holder.
2. Go to **Account Settings → Online Security**.
3. Check **Essential Security** is switched **on**.

\[Screenshot: My Virgin Media – Account Settings → Online Security\]

> **Tip:** Virgin Media emails the account holder whenever Essential Security settings are changed. If you get one of those emails and didn't make a change, sign in and check.

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### Step 2: Turn on parental controls

In the **Online Security** settings, switch on **parental controls** (Virgin Media describes this as "turning on and opting in to parental controls"). Virgin Media says these categories are then **always blocked** until you turn parental controls off:

- Pornography
- Child abuse
- Violence
- Crime
- Hate
- Drugs
- Hacking
- Suicide and self-harm
- Address hiding (tools used to get round filters)

If you turn parental controls off later, Virgin Media says your settings are **saved** until you turn them back on.

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### Step 3: Add extra categories and sites

Use the three filters on the page:

| Filter         | What it does                                                                                                                     | DeviceDaddy starting point                                                                                         |
| -------------- | -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- | ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ |
| **Categories** | Block extra categories — Virgin Media mentions **gambling, weapons, alcohol and tobacco, social media** "and more"               | Block **gambling**, **weapons** and **alcohol and tobacco**. Decide on social media based on your children's ages. |
| **Sites**      | Allow a site that's in a blocked category, or block a specific site that isn't caught                                            | Add any sites your child needs for school                                                                          |
| **Timer**      | Choose dates and times when Essential Security is **deactivated** — category and site restrictions are paused during that window | Leave it **unset** if children have devices in bedrooms                                                            |

\[Screenshot: Online Security – Categories, Sites and Timer filters\]

> ⚠️ **Watch the Timer:** the Timer is for switching filtering **off** at set times (for example, after the children's bedtime). Any child still awake and online then gets **unfiltered** access.
> 
> **Can't add an exception?** Virgin Media says you can't override a site that conflicts with a category you've blocked (for example, Gambling) or with Virgin Media's own global lists.
> 
> **Changes not showing?** Virgin Media says you **may need to restart the device** before a newly blocked site or category takes effect.

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### Step 4: Pause Wi-Fi with the Connect app (bedtimes)

Essential Security filters content, but it doesn't do per-child screen time. For that, Virgin Media suggests the **Connect app**.

1. Install the **Virgin Media Connect** app and tap **Sign in with a Virgin Media account**, using your My Virgin Media details.
2. Make sure your phone is **connected to your Virgin Media Wi-Fi**.
3. You'll see **all your connected devices**. Choose your child's device and **pause Wi-Fi** to it.
4. Unpause it in the same place when you're ready.

\[Screenshot: Virgin Media Connect app – connected devices with Pause option\]

> **Tip:** Not sure which device is which? Device names can be cryptic. Pause one and see which gadget drops offline, then make a note.

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### Step 5: Test it (2 minutes)

1. On a device connected to your Virgin Media Wi-Fi, try a site in a blocked category. You should see Virgin Media's block message.
2. On **https** sites, Virgin Media says you may see a **normal browser error** ("can't connect") instead of the branded block page — that still means it's working.
3. Pause your child's device in the Connect app and check it goes offline.

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## Keep it working

- **Home Wi-Fi only.** Virgin Media says Essential Security protects devices **only while they're connected to your home network**. On 4G/5G or at a friend's house, it doesn't apply — set up controls on the device too (Screen Time, Family Link) and ask your mobile network about its content filter.
- **Report gaps.** If a site gets through that should be blocked: **My Virgin Media → Account Settings → Online Security →** scroll to **Report a Website**.
- **Wrongly blocked?** Use the **Let us know** link on the block page.
- **VPNs and private DNS** on a device can bypass broadband filters. Keep an eye out for VPN apps.
- **TV controls are separate.** Virgin Media says Essential Security **won't change** your Virgin TV Go or TiVo parental controls — set those PINs too.
- **No filter is perfect.** Virgin Media says Web Safe doesn't block all unsafe or inappropriate content. Keep talking with your children about what they see online.

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## Related guides (links to follow)

- 🌐 *Sky Broadband parental controls* — **\[link to add\]**
- 🌐 *TalkTalk and Plusnet parental controls* — **\[link to add\]**
- 🌐 *Router-level filtering with OpenDNS (any broadband provider)* — **\[link to add\]**
- 📱 *Google Family Link on Android* — **\[link to add\]**

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## Spotted a change? Tell us

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### Sources (checked 5 October 2026)

- Virgin Media Help: How to set up parental controls for internet use — [https://www.virginmedia.com/help/security/parental-controls](https://www.virginmedia.com/help/security/parental-controls?ref=devicedaddy.mymagic.page)
- Virgin Media Help: Essential Security — what is it and how can I use it? — [https://www.virginmedia.com/help/how-to/security/essential-security](https://www.virginmedia.com/help/how-to/security/essential-security?ref=devicedaddy.mymagic.page)
- Virgin Media: Essential and Advanced Security — [https://www.virginmedia.com/broadband/essential-and-advanced-security](https://www.virginmedia.com/broadband/essential-and-advanced-security?ref=devicedaddy.mymagic.page)
- Virgin Media: Virgin Media Connect app — [https://www.virginmedia.com/broadband/connect-app](https://www.virginmedia.com/broadband/connect-app?ref=devicedaddy.mymagic.page)
- Virgin Media: Parental controls and web safety for children — [https://www.virginmedia.com/broadband/parental-control](https://www.virginmedia.com/broadband/parental-control?ref=devicedaddy.mymagic.page)